I'm 15 and I wish my mom could see this. We can go from a normal covtsreanion into a fight at anytime, but sometimes it is a set up. She is just so controlling and \my way is the right way no matter what.\ When we argue she ask me questions but they are sarcastic and I know that she isn't even listening to my answer, she is just going to turn it around on me and try to make me seem like I'm out to displease her. And I have Perfectionism, so I see her as an authority figure and when I displease her I can't help but feel like I've been beat. She tells me that all I should say is \Yes Ma'am.\ And I hate doing that because I feel like I have no control or say over MY own life. It drives me crazy that she won't just listen for two seconds and consider what I say without getting mad and turning it on me.

I'm 15 and I wish my mom could see this. We can go from a normal covtsreanion into a fight at anytime, but sometimes it is a set up. She is just so controlling and \my way is the right way no matter what.\ When we argue she ask me questions but they are sarcastic and I know that she isn't even listening to my answer, she is just going to turn it around on me and try to make me seem like I'm out to displease her. And I have Perfectionism, so I see her as an authority figure and when I displease her I can't help but feel like I've been beat. She tells me that all I should say is \Yes Ma'am.\ And I hate doing that because I feel like I have no control or say over MY own life. It drives me crazy that she won't just listen for two seconds and consider what I say without getting mad and turning it on me.